Earlier this week, his school had their first *huddle* (a huddle is like a little awards assembly). Wilson received the GOOD CITIZENSHIP AWARD at the huddle! They gave him a crown and he got his picture taken that will go up on the cafeteria wall. My understanding is that they give this award to students who show they have taken initiative to be a good student and help those around them.There's a funny story that goes along with this award. Being a first time kindergartner's parent, I did not know what the students did at a *huddle.* I did not even know that Wilson was receiving an award. When I picked up Wil that day from school, he told me he got a crown at the huddle and it was really exciting. Then he said his "friend" Tyler asked if he could have his crown. Wil said he gave it to Tyler, but then Tyler forgot to give it back to him. Wilson seemed really sad about losing his crown, so I told him to ask Tyler to give it back to him tomorrow at school. That seemed to make him feel better.
The story doesn't end there. Once we got home and settled in, Brett called us from his classroom. He said he had just talked to Ms. Merchant, Wilson's teacher. She explained about how Wilson had received this citizenship award and that he very much deserved it. Apparently, Tyler had told Wilson that if he didn't give him the crown, he wouldn't be his friend any more. So, Wil gave him the crown. When Tyler was picked up from school by his mother, she noticed the crown and asked him where he got it. She knew it wasn't his (probably because she is an informed mother and was at the huddle, unlike myself). Poor little Tyler started to cry. He felt very bad. He confessed to his mother. His mother made him go back to school and give the crown to Ms. Merchant. So then, Ms. Merchant was letting us know that she now had the crown and would give it back to Wilson the next day.
I was glowing with pride and yet I also found the situation a little amusing. I wasn't sure how to approach Wilson about what had happened. Of course we want Wilson to learn to stand up for himself, but I couldn't help but smile at the thought that he had so willingly given up his award at the request of a friend. I suppose he truly does deserve the GOOD CITIZENSHIP AWARD!
Wilson loves being a Melissa Ridge Elementary School Cardinal! Along with his crown he also gets a free dinner at the Spaghetti Warehouse. We'll probably make an appearance there tonight. Keep up the good work and I love you, Wilson!
























